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InCourage Life Coaching  ·  With Coach Lisa
What's Your Dating Pattern?
A 60-second quiz to help you name the pattern before your next date.
Q1

When you think about dating again, what's the first feeling that shows up?

AGuarded. I don't want to get hurt again.
BFamiliar. Here we go again.
CNervous. What if I say the wrong thing.
DReady. I think I actually want this.
Q2

What usually happens after a few dates with someone new?

AI pull back before it goes anywhere.
BIt's exciting at first, then it falls apart the same way it always does.
CI replay every text trying to figure out what it meant.
DI pay attention to how I feel, not just how they feel about me.
Q3

What do the people who love you say about your dating life?

A"You never even give people a chance."
B"You always end up with the same type."
C"You overthink everything."
D"You seem different lately. More sure of yourself."
Q4

Someone doesn't text back. What's your gut reaction?

ARelief, honestly.
BTypical. They're all like this.
CWhat did I do wrong?
DTheir loss. And you move on.
Q5

What's really been stopping you from dating again?

AI haven't healed from what happened last time.
BI keep choosing the same kind of person without meaning to.
CI don't trust my own judgment anymore.
DNothing, really. I just haven't had the right approach.
Q6

If a friend described you in one word right now, it would be:

AReckless
BStuck
COverthinking
DReady

Scoring

Look at the letter you picked most. That's your result below.

Your Result

Mostly A's — The Guarded Heart

You're not afraid of dating. You're afraid of starting before you're ready. That's not the same thing as giving up. It's great data.

Mostly B's — The Pattern Repeater

Different person, same story. That's the dating hamster wheel, and you already know it when you're on it.

Mostly C's — The Overthinker

You don't need more information. You need to trust yourself again. That instinct is still in there.

Mostly D's — Ready and Rising

You've done the work. Now it's about walking in with confidence, not doubt. You're not starting over. You're starting from experience.

Whichever one you landed on, the next step is the same.

"Before You Date Again" walks you through exactly what to work on before you put yourself back out there, wherever you're starting from.

Grab the eGuide — "Before You Date Again"

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What's Your Dating Pattern?  ·  Coach Lisa  ·  InCourage Life Coaching